Ingredients
What to Do with a Stalk of Lemongrass

Decide whether the lemongrass will be eaten or taken out before serving. That decision determines the cut. Fine, tender mince can stay in a marinade; a tough stalk dropped into broth should come back out.
If it will stay in the dish
Choose culinary lemongrass with a firm, pale base. Wash it, trim the hard root end and peel away dry outer layers. Cut off the tough green upper portion. Keep trimming until the lower core is tender enough to slice thinly without fighting the knife.
Slice across the fibers into very thin rings, then mince those rings much finer. A processor can help with a larger amount, but stop to inspect it: a pile of short woody splinters is not a smooth paste. Remove any stubborn coarse pieces.
Pailin Chongchitnant’s lemongrass guide separates this finely cut preparation from the bruised pieces used to infuse soups. In a dish such as oven-roasted lemongrass chicken, measure the prepared mince, not an untrimmed stalk of unpredictable size.
If it is there to perfume the liquid
Cut usable stalk portions into pieces large enough to find again. Bruise them with a pestle on a stable board to expose their interior, then add them as the recipe directs. Remove the pieces before serving. Long simmering does not make all those fibers pleasant to chew.
Keep the two preparations separate on the board. It is easy to tip a bowl of aromatic trimmings into a dish and only discover at the table that they were intended to be removed.
A lemon is not a replacement stalk
Lemongrass supplies a citrus-like aroma, not the acidity of lemon juice. Adding juice until a broth smells lemony can make it much too sour. If you cannot get lemongrass, choose a recipe with an explicit alternative rather than treating juice, zest and stalk as equal measures.
The same caution applies at the garden center. Use correctly identified culinary lemongrass, not an ornamental grass chosen because its leaves smell similar.
Save the part you will actually use
Prepare spare stalks while the knife and board are out. Freeze small portions of fine mince separately from larger infusion pieces, in labeled airtight containers. That keeps the next dinner from beginning with a frozen bundle that is impossible to measure. Richters Herbs recommends freezing over drying to preserve lemongrass flavor.
If your question is how to grow another supply, the container-growing guide covers that job. At the cutting board, the useful distinction stays simple: tender and finely cut for eating, coarse and retrievable for infusion.